BELIEVE IN HIM
Focus on the best qualities and attributes of your man. Tell him that you believe in him and he will surely believe in you too. When you consciously assume the best of each other, it will leave you with the mindset that nothing is impossible. Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should believe in more than he can offer. After all, nobody is perfect. Don’t have astronomical expectations. Instead, really take time to pinpoint all the things you love about him and this will ensure a strong relationship that lasts.
DO THINGS THAT SURPRISE HIM
There’s nothing that says you have to think like a 1950’s housewife. You are under no obligation to serve your guy. But on the other hand, when you do the little things that make his life easier, you will be rewarded 10 fold. For instance, if he’s had an exhausting day at work, why not prepare his favorite meal? Or stick his favorite pint of ice cream in the freezer? If he has an office at home, why not take some time to tidy it up for him? These are simple things that really show him how much you care.
BE HIS SUPPORT SYSTEM
Life isn’t always going to be rainbows and sunshine. There will be days when your man is going through tough times. Maybe he’s struggling with a work project, or his hamster is sick. No matter what he’s going through, it is important that you offer your support. However, you don’t want to encourage him to stay in bed all day. Encourage him to shower, put on some clothes, and head to the cinema or his favorite restaurant. Cheering him up when times are difficult will remind him that you play a really important role in his life.