Dealing with a jealous or possessive boyfriend is never simple. A common problem is falling in love with someone who has a tendency to become envious. It can have a negative impact on otherwise healthy relationships and create impassable obstacles. Worst of all, it can appear to appear out of nowhere, transforming you from a state of bliss to one of damage control. Here, we will discuss the various strategies for dealing with a jealous partner in a relationship.
1. Don’t deny it
Putting off a problem and avoiding the fact that it exists is simpler than actually confronting it. Relationships and communication within them are difficult, but it is the only way to experience growth. First and foremost, you must accept your partner’s insecurity and devise proactive ways to address it, rather than engaging in unproductive arguments. He cannot deny this fact about himself, however. Finding a way for both of you to accept it is crucial if you hope to ever move on.
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2. Listen
It’s easy to talk to each other, but the most important part of this conversation is listening to and understanding someone else’s point of view. This will allow you to better understand the source of his jealousy without making him feel judged. You might be able to handle it better in the future if you understand why he turns green with envy.
3. Leave
If you don’t feel valued in the relationship, you have every right to leave. There’s nothing you can do if your partner is having irrational thoughts unless you’ve given them a reason to doubt your relationship. That is ultimately their baggage, and you deserve to be with someone who can fully trust you if you have deemed yourself trustworthy. You can also issue a deadline.
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4. Maintain openness and honesty
If you’re hiding something from him or lying about it, even the smallest white lies can help confirm his insecurity and allow him to spiral even further. Hiding things (in any relationship) causes tension, so avoid surprises and blowing up fights by being completely open and honest in your relationships. This includes how you feel, even if the truth is difficult to bear. This also entails involving him in more aspects of your life, which can aid in the reduction of paranoia.
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5. Communicate
In this case, yelling and fighting will not get you anywhere. Jealousy frequently occurs when a jealous person is triggered and is focusing on a past situation and emotion rather than the present. Fighting will only make him fearful that you’ll leave him, but being assertive rather than aggressive can help change his mind.
